Good Parenting Is Not Accidental

Good parenting involves more than providing your children with food and clothing.  Good parents communicate well and often with each other and their children in order to promote understanding and provide love and support.  Good parents focus on each other’s and their children’s great qualities and show their children how to analyze information, compare options, and prioritize in order to make the best decisions possible.  Good parents control their tempers, listen with the intent to understand, and teach the importance of forgiveness with the purpose of learning from mistakes in order not to repeat them.  Good parents are thoughtful, kind, giving, rational, forgiving, and supportive.  Good parenting brings joy to the parents, their children, and society.

How To Heal Family Of Origin Issues

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Our Words & Actions Define Who We Are

Whatever we say and do is a reflection of who we really are deep down inside.  By speaking words that are healing, supportive, compassionate, honest, and forgiving we demonstrate a healthy level of self-esteem and appreciation for the interdependent nature of life.  Sewing seeds of kindness, mercy, thoughtfulness, and joy will result in more meaningful and enjoyable relationships that will become stronger over time.  Treating others well means we know how to treat ourselves well and understand the wisdom in speaking and doing things that build others up.  Everything we say and do eventually comes back to us like a boomerang so let’s make sure we are saying and doing things that draw good people and good experiences to us.

How To Navigate Successfully Through The Mental Health Care System

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It’s Better To Stop, Think, Analyze, & Act Reasonably Than To React Foolishly

Many people fail to take the time to step back and think about the long-term consequences of what they are about to say or do and end up ruining relationships because of not gathering all the facts or because of judging others without understanding who they really are and what they’ve been through.  Reasonable people understand that actions and words have consequences that are either good or bad and strive to exercise patience, to control their temper, to say words that indicate a desire to improve the relationship, and to do things that prove their commitment to fairness and reasonableness. Let’s take the time to think before we speak and act in order to behave wisely.

How To Transition From Co-dependence

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Respecting Yourself Is The First Step In Becoming Respected By Others

Respecting ourselves requires that we treat ourselves with dignity, keep ourselves accountable for the words we say and the things we do, that we listen with the intent to understand, that we stand up for ourselves and those who need our help, and also requires that we develop and maintain healthy personal boundaries.  Self-respect also involves the wisdom to forgive ourselves and others and the determination to communicate honestly and effectively in order to strengthen the relationship we have with others.  Self-respect is an attractive quality that draws others to us who are also interested in honoring themselves and others.

There Can Be A Rainbow On The Other Side Of Surviving Child Abuse

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Self-Confidence, Excellent Communication, & Follow Through Can Help You Strengthen Your Relationships

Self-confidence enables us to find and nurture the good qualities within ourselves and others which improves cooperation and builds trust.  Excellent communication enables us to provide positive feed back regularly to those we associate with which makes it easier to discuss and resolve any problems that may arise.  Follow through on promises made demonstrates that we listen with an intent to understand, are trustworthy, and are dedicated to the success of the relationship.  Great relationships require all those involved to be thoughtful, humble, kind, honest, and unselfish.

HOW TO TRANSITION SUCCESSFULLY FROM CO-DEPENDENCE

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Never Feel Guilty For Respecting Yourself

Respecting yourself involves the ability to say “NO” to people and things that keep you from living your best life and accomplishing your goals.  When you say “NO” to toxic people you are saying “YES” to yourself and your right to live an incredible life filled with wonderful people who genuinely love you and who always seek your best interests.  People who truly love you will never ask you to do things that you feel uncomfortable doing.  Respecting yourself means that you will stand up for what you believe in even in the face of opposition.  When you’re faced with tough decisions to make in life you’ll come to find out who your true friends really are. It takes courage to respect yourself but the rewards are innumerable.  Self-respect is the foundation for a great life and meaningful relationships.

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Sewing Seeds Of Kindness, Love, Compassion, Reasonableness, & Forgiveness Enables Us To Reap Incredible Lives

A healthy level of self-esteem and appreciation for great relationships should compel us to treat others with kindness and love.  By truly listening to the other person we increase our ability to u…

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Sewing Seeds Of Kindness, Love, Compassion, Reasonableness, & Forgiveness Enables Us To Reap Incredible Lives

A healthy level of self-esteem and appreciation for great relationships should compel us to treat others with kindness and love.  By truly listening to the other person we increase our ability to understand their needs and how meeting their needs will benefit us both and strengthen their trust in us.  When we act and speak reasonably we build a good reputation that is more valuable than gold.  People enjoy dealing with people who are reasonable, honest, and compassionate.  It’s also reasonable to admit our mistakes, correct them, and be forgiving of others since no one is perfect.  People who treat others with love, dignity, and respect are never at a loss for loyal companions who are there when times become difficult.  Speaking and acting in a loving, thoughtful, and kind way has many rewards. Let’s work each day to sew seeds of love, reasonableness, forgiveness, and kindness in order to reap a great life with meaningful relationships.

How To Heal Family Of Origin Issues

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Conquer Hate With Love & Reasonableness

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Love has the ability to conquer hate and transform lives.  Love is the ability to respect the boundaries of others and our own.  Love strengthens while hate weakens.  Love for self and others is reasonable since treating others with kindness, compassion, dignity, and respect draws people and their support to us instead of pushing them away.  Hateful people have no true supporters and only attract people who lie, betray, and steal.  By showing love and reasonableness to hateful people along with maintaining healthy boundaries we may just help some hateful people see the need for personal change.

Love Is Powerful

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Conquer Hate With Love & Reasonableness

Love has the ability to conquer hate and transform lives.  Love is the ability to respect the boundaries of others and our own.  Love strengthens while hate weakens.  Love for self and others is reasonable since treating others with kindness, compassion, dignity, and respect draws people and their support to us instead of pushing them away.  Hateful people have no true supporters and only attract people who lie, betray, and steal.  By showing love and reasonableness to hateful people along with maintaining healthy boundaries we may just help some hateful people see the need for personal change.

Love Is Powerful

Power Of Forgiveness

 

 

 

 

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